tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post2596485038283370795..comments2024-01-28T03:52:10.828+00:00Comments on A Painful Awakening...: Real disciplineEmmaJanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02724090720166508110noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-29500314520204938952009-10-31T08:45:30.877+00:002009-10-31T08:45:30.877+00:00There *is* such a different dynamic to r/l discipl...There *is* such a different dynamic to r/l discipline, isn't there? It's true for the top as well: the actual administration of the punishment is the same, physically, but so different mentally.<br /><br />It's why "12 with a hairbrush" *might* actually prove to teach you a lesson if it were for something real life - whereas that would hardly tickle you in a scene.<br /><br Abel1234https://www.blogger.com/profile/14256647943001266865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-25927782904941401672009-10-30T09:50:03.649+00:002009-10-30T09:50:03.649+00:00Discipline is at the core of my kink, too. I look ...Discipline is at the core of my kink, too. I look forward to reading about your experiences with it.Rossnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-87983614313166499542009-10-30T00:32:32.121+00:002009-10-30T00:32:32.121+00:00Just on the diary thing. Don't knock it, it so...Just on the diary thing. Don't knock it, it sounds like a good solution to your problem of getting what you needed from someone who wasn't on exactly the same kinky wavelenght as yourself. A little contrived yes but if you only write down real things it could work well, especially if you forgot something or left something out you believed he didn't know about but actually did. Then MecIrlandaishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04813292159744125690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-70518668115416197562009-10-29T21:43:17.355+00:002009-10-29T21:43:17.355+00:00Thanks for all the comments guys. I guess I should...Thanks for all the comments guys. I guess I should clarify that I'm not looking for a full on discipline relationship.<br /><br />Just sometimes instead of doing a role play scene I want to be punished for real, cos that feels like being discplined. ANd HH is wary of that, as am I, cos there are a million things I would not be happy to be punished for, being well able to make my own EmmaJanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02724090720166508110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-78691524315590104162009-10-29T21:36:18.258+00:002009-10-29T21:36:18.258+00:00EmmaJane,
That's really pushing the boundarie...EmmaJane,<br /><br />That's really pushing the boundaries between real life and 'play'. I think there are still ways to have a very fulfilling experience with all the necessary ingredients if you have the right people involved. I'm not sure that having it full-on for real would be for everybody. But maybe it's for you so if so, hope you enjoy it!<br /><br />Cheers<br />PaulaPaulaKnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-37305241180932655542009-10-29T13:36:05.111+00:002009-10-29T13:36:05.111+00:00It's a strange and deep and interesting arena ...It's a strange and deep and interesting arena of play, the "real life" stuff. I often crave it but am not particularly good at it--it requires giving up so much control, in ways that are not hot. And it requires so much trust, trust that can be hard to muster some days, even when you really love and know your partner. I'm not talking about trust that the Top won't injure youCaroline Greyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06049175847242140285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-3144556356993888872009-10-29T08:31:40.917+00:002009-10-29T08:31:40.917+00:00EmmaJane, seems to me you are heading for a D/d li...EmmaJane, seems to me you are heading for a D/d lifestyle?<br />As HH says, it has it's difficulties and dangers.<br />Interesting and revealing post, thank you.<br />Warm hugs,<br />Paul.Paulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03790580459962602757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-44732761083470758412009-10-29T00:02:55.922+00:002009-10-29T00:02:55.922+00:00CRAP! That was supposed to be LOVE and Other Indoo...CRAP! That was supposed to be LOVE and Other Indoor Sports. LMAO ... Anyway, it's Angie from the PB. :)AngieNChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11866021214387286523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-17559524595441903292009-10-29T00:02:07.771+00:002009-10-29T00:02:07.771+00:00Hi! Thanks for following me on Twitter - I hope to...Hi! Thanks for following me on Twitter - I hope to do the same. :) This entry is awesome -- it's VERY much me. I crave the same things you do, and I've had trouble finding someone who is similarly wired. It's good when you do -- but sometimes I do have to be reminded that in a lot of ways, it's harder for the one dealing out the discipline than for those of us taking it. My ex Life and Other Indoor Sportshttp://mysirensong.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com