tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post3178176199013664931..comments2024-01-28T03:52:10.828+00:00Comments on A Painful Awakening...: Letting goEmmaJanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02724090720166508110noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-20002335772291031922011-05-05T16:37:16.011+01:002011-05-05T16:37:16.011+01:00Emma Jane the slipper yes oucheecan give big spank...Emma Jane the slipper yes oucheecan give big spanks to a botty ,love and spanks ,tim xxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-64816112383956043912011-04-20T16:49:17.531+01:002011-04-20T16:49:17.531+01:00I don't read your blog all the time but every ...I don't read your blog all the time but every time I pop in I am very inspired by your writing and your honesty about what you are going through. I wish I could express myself more like that. At the moment I don't really feel safe doing so, but perhaps someday soon. I hope you know how moving your scene experiences are and there are probably many beyond myself who identify.Ms. Cassandra (Sandy) Parkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06868672752765383585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-17780134083234671002011-04-08T19:13:53.560+01:002011-04-08T19:13:53.560+01:00And there's another kind of letting go, which ...And there's another kind of letting go, which I find the hardest. Letting go of my expectations in a scene. Of how it's supposed to go, or how I'm supposed to react, or how meaningful it's meant to be. Sometimes after play parties or weekends I've nursed a similar wistful feeling--as if I hadn't taken full advantage of it. Hell, I probably feel that way every single time.Caroline Greyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06049175847242140285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-20934622548142997492011-04-08T15:02:18.854+01:002011-04-08T15:02:18.854+01:00This is another really interesting post-- you'...This is another really interesting post-- you've given me two ways to think about "letting go." The one I've more commonly thought about is seeking an emotional release in tears. That's very very hard for me to do in front of other people and has essentially never happened in spanking play. It would take an extremely compatible top and a long, trusting relationship to indyhttp://www.innocentindy.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-22959212708633861142011-04-08T11:01:18.578+01:002011-04-08T11:01:18.578+01:00Emma Jane: Thank you for sharing the detail of yo...Emma Jane: Thank you for sharing the detail of your weekend at the reformatory. Your skillful use of words enables the reader to emotionally feel the experience. You are wonderfully inventive. As an avid follower of your blog, I look forward to your every post.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-87779289261486611572011-04-08T00:26:43.372+01:002011-04-08T00:26:43.372+01:00Another beautiful piece of self-awareness, self-an...Another beautiful piece of self-awareness, self-analysis.<br /><br />I shared a similar sense of not being able to let go at the reformatory weekend that you mention. Partly, perhaps, because others didn't; partly because of the difficulty of staying in a dark character over such a long period. For me too, there were incredibly hot moments - times when it did become Officer Jenkins who was inAbel1234https://www.blogger.com/profile/14256647943001266865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-32511535103051560092011-04-07T22:57:16.021+01:002011-04-07T22:57:16.021+01:00There's very little as traumatic and difficult...There's very little as traumatic and difficult for me as moving. I've generally sat and wept a little in every space I've left. It's a combination of the memories and, well, home is a secure place for me. It's always painful to leave my cocoons, even when I'm very happy with the new space.<br /><br />I guess a little grief always comes with change.Mijahttp://www.eltercerojo.netnoreply@blogger.com