tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post5374057240385438117..comments2024-01-28T03:52:10.828+00:00Comments on A Painful Awakening...: Getting on top of myselfEmmaJanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02724090720166508110noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-89924369447921846352009-09-12T21:03:29.143+01:002009-09-12T21:03:29.143+01:00I feel like you took the words right out of my hea...I feel like you took the words right out of my head!<br /><br />However as some one who has been through many disciplinarians... usually they are more hit and miss and stressfull then making it work yourself.Kaylexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15301049250742808929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-10090970877967619502009-09-11T14:55:32.291+01:002009-09-11T14:55:32.291+01:00My advice is start by getting your work life sorte...My advice is start by getting your work life sorted. Working to 9pm in my opinion is not something you should ever be expected to do. Should you decide to start coming in 4 hours late every day they would have something to say about it!<br /><br />Also don't feel guilty about lack of contact. Other people have vanilla things going on too & may not have the time to stay in constant touch. MecIrlandaishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04813292159744125690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-10834817924658956922009-09-09T16:53:31.852+01:002009-09-09T16:53:31.852+01:00I feel the same pressure as a top, and I certainly...I feel the same pressure as a top, and I certainly don't want a tutor or guardian! But I understand the strains - especially, I find that there are times when my kink life feels so important, so core, makes me feel so very alert and alive that I don't want to dive back into all of the real world hassles and responsibilities at all. And then I remember, reluctantly, that the rent has to Abel1234https://www.blogger.com/profile/14256647943001266865noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-13809220881579953382009-09-09T12:35:21.094+01:002009-09-09T12:35:21.094+01:00I'd need an authoritarian as well.. to make me...I'd need an authoritarian as well.. to make me do things, though. Like learning and getting essays finished on time. :P<br />Your life definitely sounds like you need to take a step back and relax - good luck for finding a way to deal with that.Juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17485430110180081280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-37547985006523167292009-09-09T05:25:25.272+01:002009-09-09T05:25:25.272+01:001) Well, if blogging is really beyond you, I assur...1) Well, if blogging is really beyond you, I assure you your readers can't tell! and 2) Toast is awesome. Never feel guilty for toast, never!<br /><br />Hope you find the balance that's right for you - and you're right, you shouldn't be afraid to cut yourself some slack!Grahamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14627332220419275106noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-66298611267601115632009-09-09T00:34:41.717+01:002009-09-09T00:34:41.717+01:00Kind of spooky, You posted this about 9.20 but I&...Kind of spooky, You posted this about 9.20 but I've only read it now. I have a distinct feeling of d'eja vu.Master Retephttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04311695282682721027noreply@blogger.com