tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post4813917953338320550..comments2024-01-28T03:52:10.828+00:00Comments on A Painful Awakening...: Consensual Non-ConsentEmmaJanehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02724090720166508110noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-2167599655520499012015-06-28T05:36:34.335+01:002015-06-28T05:36:34.335+01:00I'm 22 very pettie and in great shape but some...I'm 22 very pettie and in great shape but sometimes I can get out of control so I am in a discipline relationship with my boyfriend. Just about two weeks ago, I accidentally clipped his motorcycle just enough to tip it over. I felt so bad and he was so upset I agreed to take what he calls a "real punishment spanking" (no safe word, no warm up, no limit on the number of swats and no Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-2748016734986328032014-10-10T05:45:22.608+01:002014-10-10T05:45:22.608+01:00Punishment spankings are completely different. The...Punishment spankings are completely different. They always starts with a very long hand warm-up spanking, set that dam egg timer again. Than I have to stand in the dam corner and he set the egg timer and doesn’t tell me how long he set it for. But I can pull up my jeans and rub all I want as long as I hold the paper against the wall with my noise at all time. Than its back over his knee or over Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-63947287188224691592014-06-19T04:19:25.178+01:002014-06-19T04:19:25.178+01:00Once I consent to submit to my boyfriend (HoH) to ...Once I consent to submit to my boyfriend (HoH) to make a decision to give me a discipline spanking. The manner in which he administrators that punishment spanking is not in my control. Meaning that whatever position, implement, severely and intensity he wants to spank me is his decision. At that point, its nonconsensual as to the means it given to me; however, since I gave him my consent it Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-32417959155977237682009-06-08T19:01:23.571+01:002009-06-08T19:01:23.571+01:00@Mec, it's certainly a difficult balance to ac...@Mec, it's certainly a difficult balance to achieve but both have to work at it. My experiences have been mostly good so far and unless someone did something completely out of line (like ignore a safeword)I'd probably give them a second chance.<br /><br />@Kami, hey you, I don't count little lies as being all that BAD :-PEmmaJanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02724090720166508110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-86049434955133161682009-06-08T18:55:04.745+01:002009-06-08T18:55:04.745+01:00You? Good? I was always told that lying is not a f...You? Good? I was always told that lying is not a feature of a good girl :PKami Robertsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12079738972724702917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-51902275361866749912009-06-08T16:13:29.383+01:002009-06-08T16:13:29.383+01:00"Most of all we can't forget that 'no..."Most of all we can't forget that 'non-consent' is just a carefully crafted illusion"<br /><br />I love this comment, it sums up perfectly what I am looking to achieve in a scene. It is a difficult balancing act & sometimes I just have not got the balance with certain players. I usually don't feel like giving them a second chance, but maybe this is too harsh, I don&#MecIrlandaishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04813292159744125690noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-90505212440667776642009-06-07T22:41:41.778+01:002009-06-07T22:41:41.778+01:00@Erik, yes safewords are the norm in most spanking...@Erik, yes safewords are the norm in most spanking play.<br /><br />@Kami, equally sick as me of course in that way!<br /><br />@Miss Jules, LOL, I have to admit I can be quite good at the obedient-from-the beginning bit, but that's cos I'm a GOOD girl ;)EmmaJanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02724090720166508110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-31052874167664139162009-06-07T22:30:03.140+01:002009-06-07T22:30:03.140+01:00Mhhm, consensual non-consent appears to be working...Mhhm, consensual non-consent appears to be working very well for me as well. I love struggling against my partner and being forced to submit in a scene - I do have my obedient-from-the-beginning days, but they are rare.Juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17485430110180081280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-31689083102814714012009-06-07T19:30:52.855+01:002009-06-07T19:30:52.855+01:00Hello, i wonder if you like exchange links with ot...Hello, i wonder if you like exchange links with others spanking blogs.<br /><br />I have a spanking blog to. If you like exchange links let me know!<br /><br />Best Regards<br /><br />EnzoSpanked Girlshttp://www.girlspanked.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-27385619299712651412009-06-07T19:22:42.274+01:002009-06-07T19:22:42.274+01:00I do have dreams about non-consensual abuse every ...I do have dreams about non-consensual abuse every now and then. They are netiher hot or nice but I'm not really bothered by it, it's just a dream. The same I dreamt once about dying - doubt I actually want to die LOL<br /><br />Oh, and you know what I think about your interest in consensual non-consent you sick little thing :)Kami Robertsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12079738972724702917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771730470771017640.post-67396136096486692322009-06-07T14:05:01.731+01:002009-06-07T14:05:01.731+01:00Again a good contribution raising a good discussio...Again a good contribution raising a good discussion. We all know that spanking movies are fiction, when a child gets a spanking for being naughty it is non-fiction, non-consent. I a spanking movie it is the bottom who decides how far she will go, some takes a lot and many love to see it, but in the end it is busines, and I allways have had the feeling that there was an agreement how far the Eriknoreply@blogger.com